Posted by Vanessa - June 19th, 2006
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You wouldn’t run a high-performance engine without any lube, so why run your high-performance body without any? And if you don’t use any at all, things might just grind to a halt…
Load up the lube, ladies. It’s not just a health matter (anal sex without lube can be a risky business for all concerned) – it’s a pleasure thing. A well-chosen lubricant can dramatically enhance your sexual experience and make you forever wonder why didn’t you use it before.
Sex without lube is like driving without tyres. It’s just about possible, but you won’t find it terribly comfortable, you might damage some key equipment and you won’t get anywhere very fast.
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Posted by Vanessa - June 8th, 2006
How often do you finger your woman? The sensation this bring to most women is so intense that you could make them squirt or reach orgasm even before penetration.
Do you have what it takes to achieve this?
Below are some guidelines when playing with that Ms. clitoris
.
1. Slippery when wet – make sure she is already when before you start rubbing your index and middle finger on her clitoris
. If it ain’t wet then it ain’t slippery. If it ain’t slippery then you’ll give her a sore clit afterwards and the pain she’ll have to put up with you is enough to get you off her bed. Use a lubricant or if you are good enough you get her wet prior to your finger assault.
2. The play – the proper positioning is the key to great play. Make sure you have a wide open access to her vaginal sensation. Spread her legs wide apart while lying down and crawl all the way to her vagina. Use your middle finger while stroking the clit
and depending on her moan adjust the speed. Vary your moves by insert your middle or sometimes include your index finger inside her. Licking her clit while your fingers have penetrated will up her arousal.
3. Double Team – why alternate your finger on her clit and inside here when you can do both at the same time. Use both of your hands; one for
stroking her clitoris and the other for pumping it inside and out of her vagina
. A triple team approach with your tounge is bound to send her
flooding all over the place.
4. Drill her up – imagine the motion of a drill rotation in one direction. Do the same with her while pushing and pulling your fingers inside her
vagina twist it as if you are drilling her in.
5. Pressdown – as your finger is swallowed by her vagina
, press the area between her waistline and pubic hair and close the gap between her finger inside and outside her
vagina. This will bring greater sensation to her.
This five and easy steps is sure to bring her to orgasm. Just remember to listen to her moans to determine the speed and motion of your fingers.
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Posted by Vanessa - February 21st, 2006

One of the things women find strange is how men find anal sex so interesting. They could not understand men’s desire for it and feel unpleasant by the thought of penis guy inside through that tiny anal hole.
But come to think of it married couples would likely have sex for hundreds if not thousands of times in their lifetime (if their lucky enough not to get divorced). How long before they perform and experience all sex tricks and positions possible? How long could they last the curiosity or better yet constant prodding of men who is believed to initiate this position more than women?
How can we help you in this gray area?
Below is a list of things to remember if we are to successfully get that hole wide open:
Understanding and Willingness: Both you and your partner should talk things out rather than force this entry candidly during sex. She has to understand and be willing enough to indulge in anal sexual activity before even making an attempt. This way she has time to relax and get those anal muscles to relax too.
Fasting: It is best to fast for 12 hours and make that bathroom deposit 12 hours before and even just before the deed to ensure there will be no leftovers clinging to your guy once ejected. Personally, I had a bad experience on this and thereafter ensured the girl goes through this routine. No offense, just being safe for both of you.
Prepare Condoms: Be sure to use condoms. I always felt uncondomized during anal sex since there is no fear of pregnancy until I got STD moments after the act. Boy was it soooo painful. It feels like a rock is coming out every time I leaked. Another thing, don’t go after the cheapest condom in the market but rather get branded latex or polyurethane with Nonoxynol-9 to kick bacteria from the face of this planet.
Lubricant is like Fuel: An engine can’t run without fuel. So treat your penis guy like an engine that needs lubricants. Do not forget this. We do not want anal and penis wound to result from friction. You may end up with more disease than you can imagine.
Slowly but surely: During the first time do it as slow as possible. Little by little as you are forcing your guy inside; the anal hole will just pop wide open at a certain point and bingo your guy has entered the kingdom. After the entry, the pain would be during thrusts. In this movement do it gently and slowly. The last thing you want is get you’re girl traumatized.
Avoid getting carried away: Remember if it is the first time you did it, don’t forget everything and pump like a maniac. Be conscious because the different kind sensation felt during the act combined with the contraction felt by your penis could be so titillating enough to blow your mind off.
There you have it! Follow these simple rules to guide you in your anal pursuit to satisfaction. Later on you will realize some of these things can already be skipped but NEVER, I repeat NEVER skip the hygiene part—believe the person who did it at the age of 16.
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Posted by Vanessa - February 19th, 2006
The race has just started and we are already uttering the words—“Oh shit! I am about to come.” A 100 meter race isn’t something liked by women in general. What they want is to orgasm and this sexual peak is usually achieved through a marathon race.
How do we last the Marathon?
Mental Conditioning—The first thing you should remember is that your semen would not burst without the help of your mind. So before you go in for the attack condition your mind. Do to start off with an animalistic release. Calm down. Be a zen master.
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay—Unless you want an atomic bomb dropped off right away. Start with an initial attack. This is called foreplay. Do not rush anything. Kiss your partner, talk dirty to her. Massage her body, and start licking her down. Make sure she is sooo wet before you go in for the slam dunk.
Learn the play—Nobody knows your ejaculation capability more than you do. Know yourself. Ask questions like—“What make me cum right away? What is the zone that raises my body temperature so much? What boils me down? The deeper you get to know yourself the more control you will have in ejaculation.
What positions are best for Marathon Play?
In general there are positions that will speed up the pace by which we get to ejaculate. These positions include those that bring greater pressure on our penis, or more body contact that will up the tempo of our release.
Therefore, we chose the positions that would give guys lesser penis pressure and longer action. Below are the positions we chose.
Lock and Pose: This position allows her to help reach orgasm faster and at the same time gives you total control on your penis. If you find yourself getting hot to the point of ejaculation; you may draw your guy a little or slowly lower the pace. She doesn’t even have the muscle control edge on this and gives your penis more time to relax.
Bronco Buster: By lying down your semen will have to push itself all the way up and this gives you more time to get it out and suppress. Likewise, your hands are free and can control the thrusting of your partner. You may slow down the pace once you feel you are about to explode.
Bamboo Split: This rear entry technique doesn’t give the girl a lot of control in your thrusting. You may opt to slow down and remove your guy anytime you wish to prolong the race. Also, deep penetration may not be achieved in this situation unless you got a 12 inch long artillery.
Puppet Master: This is similar to the Bamboo Split wherein a rear entry could give you a lot of advantage in controlling the thrust and removing your penis anytime it needs to retreat.
And there you go; these are easy steps to get both of you satisfied. A marathon race is nothing compared to a one sided sprint race.
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Posted by Vanessa - January 26th, 2006
What? Psychologist Michael Bader and author of Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies says “a number of studies have shown that the most common fantasy for females is to give in to their partner and have him take charge sexually because it alleviates the constant pressure they feel to please their partner.
Our Take: We can be your servant most of the time sweeping you from toe to top; vacuuming every inch of your body until you go insanely orgasmic.
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Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies

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Posted by Vanessa - January 20th, 2006
There are so many sex myths that drive our sex life. This false information leads in our inability to satisfy our partners while on the contrary, knowing the truth gives us enough ammunition to make every experience fun and exciting.
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Posted by Vanessa - January 16th, 2006
What? The brain temporarily shuts down during the peak of orgasm according to PhD Gert Holstege at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands.
Our Take: Can you just imagine what a girl feels when her brain does not shut down and feels every little sensation during this time? Whoaaah…
Reference: Cosmopolitan Philippines
Female Masturbation Gift Set: Every Woman’s Orgasm is Unique & Clitoris: The Key to a Woman’s Pleasure, Offered as a Series

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